August – began a few weeks ago, but this month’s rule is belated due to a change in the online blog platform and a delay in publishing my posts. I apologize for the lapse especially since this month’s rule, as Chris would say, is “so Damn Important”:
SPEND LESS THAN YOU MAKE
You may be wondering what on earth this rule has to do with being Younger Next Year or with “moving York off the list”? Well, consider this:
Costing a lot is not a necessary ingredient for that to happen.
The first week of August John and I “vacationed” by participating in The Pennsylvania Perimeter Ride Against Cancer (PPRAC) – a bi-annual event organized by a family from Eastern Pennsylvania to raise money and awareness for The American Cancer Society and A Dream Come True. This was the 15th year for the ride, but the first for us. The ride organizers take pride in making the event as challenging as possible – cancer entails suffering so those fighting it need to sacrifice a little too. Chris Crowley and Henry Lodge would most certainly give PPRAC their stamp of approval as the perfect “kedging” trip and I swear to you that it cost us way less than any “vacation” we’ve ever taken but left us with memories and experiences that we’ll never forget. In Chapter 9, Harry defines kedging – a nautical term describing how to haul a large ship out of troubled waters by pulling toward a distant anchor. Harry says that in this journey toward being “younger next year” we all need a kedging experience once in a while to keep motivated and to save ourselves. In non-nautical terms Harry defines kedging as “…climbing out of the ordinary, setting a desperate goal and working like crazy to get there.” PPRAC was all that – and more.
This year’s ride covered 520 miles, over 40,000 feet of climbing, and 6 days of pedaling for 6 to 10 hours each. 88 cyclists and support persons slept together at night in space donated by school gyms, churches and YMCAs and ate meals prepared by community organizations like the American Legion or VFW. The cost of the “vacation” was the $1,000 minimum fundraising required of each of us, and a few cycling necessities to get ready for the trip. We spent less than $500 on a new air mattress, new cycling shorts, and new tires for our bikes. Before the trip we cycled over 1200 miles to get ready – we worried about this being too far out of our comfort zone, too “desperate”. When we gathered with all the other cyclists on the day we departed for the starting point of the trip we realized we were novice cyclists compared to the majority of the group and pretty much out of our element. But, once again Harry has the insight that I needed. He summarizes his advice on kedging by pointing out that “doing stuff that scares the hell out of you – or embarrasses you or makes you feel like a dope – does have a place. In most cases it can’t kill you, and the learning curve can be exhilaratingly steep. It opens your head up at an age when you’re tempted to shut it down. Besides, scary is memorable.” I will remember the highs and lows of this trip forever.
PPRAC week began with a church service in Palmerton, the town to which we would be returning – an hour during which I seriously doubted my own judgment for being there, as the congregation sang hymns with word substitutions about climbs to the endless skyway and prayed for us. Why was I not taking a “real” vacation, replete with four star hotels, gourmet meals and lazy days? When I ask stupid questions like that I usually get my answer and this was no exception. Exiting the church after the service brought me back to reality with this sign.
I suffered a lot on this trip. I was uncomfortable with my performance. I longed for my own bed and bathroom. I complained way too much. But, I loved every memorable minute. I learned a lot about my ability to persevere, to deal with adversity and to be (or not be) flexible. And, it didn’t cost me a penny. Kedging can be cheap: you’ll spend less than you’ll make – but it is priceless! And, it’ll make you “younger next year”.



