
BRETT BERWAGER for Smart
Christian Kurtz, 3, of Hanover, plays in a jungle gym at Faloon's Family Fun Center in Hanover.
By BETH VRABEL for Smart
Kathy Carlisle, Manchester Township mom of Abigail, 3, and Hannah, 5, knows how to throw a play date.
Carlisle has been a member of the MOMS Club of West York for about five years. She has seen good play dates go bad from too few ground rules. She has seen teetering play dates saved with a few good snacks.
When Carlisle first joined the group, about six moms whose children were about 1 or younger got together and chatted while the babies played. They could sip coffee and nibble on cake. “And then we all started having our second kids,” said Carlisle, with a laugh.
Soon, the moms split their play dates into smaller, more manageable groups. Her advice: If the kids are younger than 2, limit the group to no more than five. If they’re older, limit it to four.
Play date tips
• Prepare your child. Tell your child that friends will be coming over to play, and give him a chance to put away his favorite loveys.
• Have some snacks. Kids inevitably will be starving five minutes into a play date. Good winter snack options include graham crackers and fruit. Carlisle likes mandarin oranges or grapefruit sections. Put out some coffee cake and hot tea or coffee for those moms lucky enough to have mellow kids.
• Unplug the TV. “The kids just go and sit there and you wonder, ‘Why are you here?’ ” Carlisle said.
• Set expectations. “Certainly whoever hosts gets to have house rules,” Carlisle said. Don’t hesitate to announce that shoes should be taken off at the door or that food doesn’t leave the kitchen. Let everyone know what time the play date ends. (Two hours is about long enough, Carlisle said.)
• Have a plan. Children younger than 2 are usually satisfied with free play and not a lot of structure. For preschool-age kids, have some simple crafts planned, such as cutting out paper snowflakes or making pinecone bird feeder. See "Play date themes" below for other fun ideas.
Kathy Carlisle's play date themes
• Helping feathered friends: Ask each guest to bring a pine cone. Fill pie tins with bird seed and put out a few tubs of peanut butter. Ask the kids to smear peanut butter around their pine cones and roll them in bird seed. When the kids go home, they can hang their birdfeeders outside. Just make sure they’re placed by a window so the kids can check on their “friends,” Carlisle said.
• Pancake breakfast: Tell guests to come in pajamas and bring along a favorite pancake topper — sliced bananas, strawberry jam, whipped cream, blueberries — for a morning play date. “Jelly is a good option to spread on and not drip around like syrup,” Carlisle said. For an added touch, read “If You Give A Pig a Pancake,” by Laura Joffe Numeroff and Felicia Bond.
• Serve Green Eggs and Ham: Plan a morning play date in early March to honor Dr. Seuss’ March 2, 1904, birthday. Start off with a viewing of “The Cat in the Hat.” Meanwhile, mix up scrambled eggs dyed green with food coloring. Serve with ham, and afterward read a few Dr. Seuss books or color Dr. Seuss coloring pages. (Download them for free from about.com.)
SMART TIP As the play date ends: Start singing this song: “Clean up! Clean up! Everybody, every where! Clean up! Clean up! Everybody does their share!”
When all else fails, get out of the house
Roy G. Biv is a big fan of Faloon’s Family Fun Center.
Remember Roy, the pneumonic device used to recall the colors of the rainbow? (Red, orange, yellow, green, blue, indigo and violet.)
Outside, the rainbow’s nowhere to be seen. The landscape’s just a dull gray, brown or white.
But inside Faloon’s, Roy G. Biv is everywhere — the ball pits, the sliding boards, the play tunnels and Put-Put greens.
The play center’s a whirlwind of color, sure to help little ones — and their mommies —
forget the drabbest winter days.
Faloon’s, 1171 Eichelberger St. in Hanover, is open 10 a.m. to 9 p.m. Sunday through Thursday and 10 a.m. to 10 p.m. Friday and Saturday.
Other area ball pits and indoor play centers:
Indoor play centers
• Tumbletown, in the West Manchester Mall and the York Galleria, is open 10 a.m. to 9 p.m. Monday to Saturday and noon to 5 p.m. Sunday. Cost varies with time spent at the center.
• Kidz Blast, 90 Grumbacher Road, East Manchester Township, open 10 a.m. to 8 p.m. Monday to Friday and open for parties during the weekend. Check out www.kidzblast.net for details.
• Gymboree Play & Music, 2300 Industrial Highway, Springettsbury Township. Call 600-8006 for program details.
Learn and play
Looking for a more educational route? There’s always the library. Check out York County Libraries Web site at www.yorklibraries.org. The calendar lets you check out which libraries are having story times and when. The best part: Story times are free.
Or you could check out children’s museums, where kids can actually touch and play with the exhibits.
Here are a few to consider
• Explore & More, 20 E. High St., Gettysburg. Exhibits include a Civil War-era playroom, a construction zone, arts and crafts room and a nature area. Admission is $6 for children ages 2 to 14, while kids 1 and younger or in the WIC program are free. It’s open 10 a.m. to 5 p.m. Monday through Saturday and noon to 5 p.m. Sunday; closed on Wednesday.
• Hands-on House Children’s Museum, 721 Landis Valley Road, Lancaster. Check out
www.handsonhouse.org or call 569-KIDS for hours, fees and details.
• Curiosity Connection, 300 North St., Harrisburg. Hours are 10 a.m.to 3:30 p.m. Tuesday to Saturday and noon to 4 p.m. Sunday. Tickets are $5 for ages 1 and older. Exhibits include a mini-factory, garden and orchard; an art wall and construction zone.