Homecoming- dates are overrated

Well Fall has finally arrived and that means one thing…the Homecoming Dance! During this time the hallways are usually filled with endless chatter about finding that perfect dress, which then leads to the just the right shoes, jewelry, and so on. Every other girl is freaking out about what hairstyle looks best with her features and of course what guy will ask her to be his date. While there are some benefits to going as a couple such as discount tickets and corsages galore, the reality is having a date just adds unessasary tension and stress. My school just had our Homecoming over the weekend and while a couple of my friends went with dates most of us decided to go as a big group instead. In particular, the hostess of the pre party I attended was asked by an upperclassman to the dance. This of course led to the dilemmas of what color corsage looked best, finding a tie to match her dress and how high her heels should be. Of course all those weeks of planning and prepping didn’t really matter once the actual dance began. Her date ended up being painfully shy and she spent the whole night avoiding him instead of just jumping on the dance floor and having fun. Even though she was guaranteed a dance partner for the slow songs it appeared that the girls without dates ended up having the most fun after all. Just think a roomful of single guys who may be too embarrassed to ask a girl out, but not to dance. Without a date, no one is obligated to hang out with only one person; in fact, you get the pick of the dance floor! It’s much more casual and low key to be able to dance with multiple guys as friends instead of being tied together by the waist all night. Chances are twenty years from now you won’t even remember your date’s name but the memories and friendships you make that night will be the stories you’ll tell your grandchildren. Honestly, why go with a date when it’s just as cool to go stag?

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2 Responses to Homecoming- dates are overrated

  1. Madison says:

    Omg that article was completely true, and i agree with everything that you wrote. I was at the same pre- party and i equally agree, she would have had ten times more fun just meeting the guy there then going with him to the dance. I went stag and had a blast because I could dance with so many more guys and just have fun with it. I think that in the day in age, way to many people put pressure on the subject or getting a date when in reality people should be focasing on more important things like hanging out with there friend before and after and having a blast there!!! Anywho, I agree with everyting you said, you hit it right on the nose!!!!

  2. Girl Dresses says:

    In particular, the hostess of the pre party I attended was asked by an upperclassman to the dance. This of course led to the dilemmas of what color corsage looked best, finding a tie to match her dress and how high her heels should be.

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