How to walk in heels, pumps or stilettos without falling on your face

I'm trying to learn how to walk like a lady, but haven't mastered how to walk in this heel yet. Photo illustration -- Ashley May

Monday I almost killed myself walking into work wearing black pumps (as pictured above). My personal goal of wearing the heels for at least half the day failed before making it past the parking lot. The shoes were too big, and even with inserts, my foot slipped swiftly out of my footwear, making me look like a toppling, wounded giraffe. Thank goodness I caught myself before my nose hit the pavement. And, thank goodness I brought an extra pair of flats.

I’ve never had an impressive collection of stilettos. Over the years, maybe I’ve picked up one or two that are really beautiful. Honestly, I never thought I had a reason to buy them, especially as a college student living in Ithaca, N.Y. Traipsing through ten inches of snow in stilettos is not exactly my idea of sane. With that said, I do have a respect for the stiletto and I have always associated the shoe with the look of a career woman. So, now, I feel like I have no excuse as to why I shouldn’t be able to wear one. After all, here I am, in my 20s, working full time, living in the “real world” and trying to be a classy lady.

Problems that frequently end in a fall: I like walking fast, I don’t pick up my feet enough and I can’t help but slide on any flooring but carpet. So, instead of looking like a stylish lady, I end up looking like a walking disaster. But, I’m determined.

In the past few months, my theory remains that practice makes perfect. I’m bandaging my heels, sticking in the inserts, trying to stand up straight and wearing the heels as often as I feel crazy enough to try them again. Honestly, I really need to get a pair that fit and aren’t making my soles go completely vertical.

Most ladies I know that sport the heel daily say they’ve been wedging their toes in vertical shoes for years. Also, I have found that what type of insert you put in your shoe makes the difference – some inserts support your arch while others cushion your heel. Every foot is different – so tying a few different kinds might make the difference between pain and elegance. Also, I have heard that the kind of leather used to make the shoe can affect the comfort – sometimes investing in a more expensive shoe could save you a few blisters. If you need help walking like a lady, like I do, check out some of the links below. Also, if you lust over stylish pumps, check out my Pinterest board: Walk like a lady.

 


Walk like a lady

Learn to grow up, wear heels and stay classy.

Storified by Ashley May · Fri, May 11 2012 10:14:44

I think tonight will be a "break-out-the-heels" night because in 10 hours, I will be done with my first year http://instagr.am/p/Kb0JJ6R8Rg/Annmarie D
gasp!! i wore #heels alllll day and they didnt hurt one bit. i think that makes me a #womanLauren Mankin
Lol girls saying they got the prom dress AND heels… Lucky for me I only had to buy my dress boyfriend isn’t tall enough for heels ❤Alex Turbeville 
You know your’re in york ,pa when you see women dressed to kill while pushing their kids in the stroller we talkin high heels and everythingDONTE BARNES
10 Fairly Comfy High Heels That You Can Run Around InWe’re in the midst of Fashion Week and that means more than just pretty clothes and pretty people. It means we’re walking in heels. A lot…
I am Style-ish: How to walk in heels!undefined
How to make your high heel pumps comfortable and walk easier!xamandacouture

About Ashley May

Multiplatform journalist at the York Daily Record / Sunday News. York County native. Fashion enthusiast. Social media junkie. Follow me on Twitter @ashleymaytweets.
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4 Responses to How to walk in heels, pumps or stilettos without falling on your face

  1. Lerin says:

    Today I got my first pair of heels! Im super pumped and I can’t wait to walk across the stage for graduation. Ive been wearing them a lot lately to get used to them and its helped a lot! It makes me feel like a woman. #proud

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