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Welcome to Twenty & Change! Here, you'll find stories from York Daily Record's Generation Y'ers as they blog the many changes that come along in your 20s -- good and bad -- and, essentially, how to survive until you’re 30.

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Category Archives: Love
The high price of a wedding
Weddings now cost a small fortune — close to $30,000. However, 20-somethings have a larger debt load at about $45,000. How can we even afford to get hitched?
Posted in 20-something, Bethany Fehlinger, Generation Y, Love, Marriage, Money, Relationships, Wedding
Tagged 20-something, 20-somethings, budget, Cost of Wedding, debt, elopement, engaged, engagement, favors, flowers, marriage, rings, wedding, wedding institution
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What not to ask the newly engaged
Those who are newly engaged know they will bombarded with questions. However, this interrogation can ruin the joyful time between engaged and full-gear wedding planning. When you hear someone is engaged, do not ask these questions:
Posted in Bethany Fehlinger, Love, Marriage, Relationships, Wedding
Tagged awkward, do not ask, dress, engaged, engagement, marriage, married, questions, reception, should nots, shoulds, story, venue, wedding
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My own holiday knitting story
On Friday I wrote a story about knitters working on holiday gifts in August. I went to Uncommon Threads for a couple hours during the store’s lock-in on Aug. 10 to see if anyone was working on holiday gifts yet. … Continue reading
Posted in Caryn Rupert, Do-it-yourself, Family, Home, Love
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‘Grown Up Slumber Parties’: friendship, relationships, and girl-time tomfoolery
A dear friend of mine from my college days introduced me to this quote by Jim Jarmusch: “Nothing is original. Steal from anywhere that resonates with inspiration or fuels your imagination. Devour old films, new films, music, books, paintings, photographs, … Continue reading
Hard of hearing at 26
For the past week, I’ve had an eye-, er, ear-opening experience, and a few choice words for friends, family members, co-workers and even strangers: “Huh?” “What?” “I’m sorry?” Last Thursday, I lost an ear. Not like Van Gogh, silly. It … Continue reading
Posted in 20-something, Aging, Growing up, Health, Love, Quarter-Life Crisis
Tagged doctor, ear, hearing
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‘Surviving’ Valentine’s Day
Feb. 14 comes but once a year, which makes most guys (single or attached) get sweaty and nervous and awkward, while their girlfriends (or girl friends) try to downplay the importance of chocolate and flowers and romance. This week has, … Continue reading
Posted in Growing up, Love, Relationships
Tagged downplay, on my own, relationships, sarah chain, single, surviving, valentine's day
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New Year’s resolutions for the newly engaged
On New Year’s eve, we made a list. Last year, Andy and I made a list, too. Saturday night, we opened the sheet of paper marked with 2011′s goals and reflected on what we had and had not accomplished. Then … Continue reading
Posted in 20-something, Growing up, Love, Marriage, Relationships
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A 21st-century proposal
Supposedly, ’tis the season for engagement. (Read Brittany’s post.) Including my own. My boyfriend proposed Christmas Eve, so I had the opportunity to tell the story over and over and over to friends and family during the holidays. I think … Continue reading
Posted in 20-something, Growing up, Love, Marriage, Pop culture, Relationships
Tagged christmas, engagement, ring, traditions
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Combining Christmases:
Surviving the holidays together
It’s beginning to look a lot like Christmas at the Trotter-Hanlin house: We bought our first tree this weekend. The boyfriend lugged it into the apartment — a project he refused help on because the guy at the tree lot … Continue reading
Posted in 20-something, April Trotter, Cohabitating, Growing up, Love, Relationships
Tagged 20-something, 20-somethings, boyfriend, budget, christmas, cohabitating, family, holidays, learning
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Dating tips: Tough love for 20-somethings
I met up with my best friend for lunch during the weekend and got the scoop about her latest date, where the guy opened the door for her and was a gentleman. Then I stumbled upon this article titled “22 … Continue reading
Posted in 20-something, Love, Relationships, Uncategorized
Tagged 20-somethings, 22 tips, boyfriend, dating, dating tips, girlfriend, growing up, relationships, soul mates, tough love
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