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Welcome to Twenty & Change! Here, you'll find stories from York Daily Record's Generation Y'ers as they blog the many changes that come along in your 20s -- good and bad -- and, essentially, how to survive until you’re 30.

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Category Archives: Relationships
The high price of a wedding
Weddings now cost a small fortune — close to $30,000. However, 20-somethings have a larger debt load at about $45,000. How can we even afford to get hitched?
Posted in 20-something, Bethany Fehlinger, Generation Y, Love, Marriage, Money, Relationships, Wedding
Tagged 20-something, 20-somethings, budget, Cost of Wedding, debt, elopement, engaged, engagement, favors, flowers, marriage, rings, wedding, wedding institution
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The evolution of dating in your 20s
Dating has changed for 20-somethings in the 21st century, thanks to technology.
Posted in 20-something, Dating, Relationships, Sarah Chain
Tagged 20-something, dating, New York Times, relationships, technology, text, the end of courtship, trend, tweet
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What not to ask the newly engaged
Those who are newly engaged know they will bombarded with questions. However, this interrogation can ruin the joyful time between engaged and full-gear wedding planning. When you hear someone is engaged, do not ask these questions:
Posted in Bethany Fehlinger, Love, Marriage, Relationships, Wedding
Tagged awkward, do not ask, dress, engaged, engagement, marriage, married, questions, reception, should nots, shoulds, story, venue, wedding
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Thanksgiving with adult siblings is still like a verbal food fight
The cycle of conflict: Will we ever learn?
Posted in 20-something, Family, Food, Growing up, Home, Relationships, Stephanie Reighart, Uncategorized
Tagged thanksgiving
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Being thankful requires conscious effort — even in November
Sarah Chain learns to consciously be thankful for what she has in the month of November.
Posted in 20-something, Family, Generation Y, Relationships, Sarah Chain
Tagged appreciate, coffee, family, grateful, holidays, sarah chain, Thankful, thanksgiving
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Everyone is married and pregnant
Before long, everyone I know will have a house and six kids. Am I ready for that?
‘Grown Up Slumber Parties’: friendship, relationships, and girl-time tomfoolery
A dear friend of mine from my college days introduced me to this quote by Jim Jarmusch: “Nothing is original. Steal from anywhere that resonates with inspiration or fuels your imagination. Devour old films, new films, music, books, paintings, photographs, … Continue reading
Cohabitation not so great after all?
Cohabitation before marriage has become a hot topic as the new generation of adults emerges and screws with statistics. On Twenty & Change, we have talked about our experiences with it and study results in recent articles. We thought cohabitation … Continue reading
Posted in 20-something, Bethany Fehlinger, Cohabitating, Marriage, Relationships
Tagged cohabitation, cohabitation before marriage, cohabiting, Dr. Laurie Weiss, future, geek, marriage, Meg Jay, New York Times, prediction, Slate, The Downside of Cohabitation Before Marriage, Your Tango
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